Wardrobe Wednesdays: Plus-Size Hits & Misses

Just like anyone, plus-size girls have outfits that succeed and make them look great, and others … not so much. Here, a collection of some recent looks from four hot ladies.

Here, we have Rebel Wilson, who starred in Bridesmaids and Pitch Perfect. I adore her and think she’s hilarious, but with this dress, she missed the mark. It looks like it wants to nip in at the waist and flair out, but it just doesn’t lay right. And I’m not a fan of those sleeves.

Not the right fit and not flattering for her arms.

I’m not sure the color does anything for her either!

Rebel looks amazing in the next two — definite hits! I’m not wild about cap sleeves for plus-sizes at all, but here they are much more flattering than in the red. They fall at a place where they’re almost a strap. And the bow at her waist adds a really nice cinching detail.

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This pattern is great!

Love this color (you don’t always have to wear black!) and simply the cut and shape of this dress makes Rebel look amazing.

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Satin can be hard to wear, especially on the bottom, but all a plus-size girl needs is some shapewear, and perhaps a slip!

There’s no doubt that Adele is gorgeous, but one thing she’s guilty of? Wearing black a lot. Here, I think she’s a bit too covered up and matronly for her age. I’m not totally opposed to this dress. The cinched waist and neckline details are nice. But it’s just too, dare I say the word, dowdy?

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I have mixed feelings about this one…

This dress rocks! While the one above was a little too covered, this one is still conservative except for two things: you can see her legs! And it’s sparkly! The shape of this dress is flattering, as is the size of the sparkles (size of sparkles? trust me, you can go wrong here).

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I would’ve liked to see a little V-neck here, but it’s still a winner!

Melissa McCarthy … so, so, so funny. In Bridesmaids, in Mike and Molly. Everything she does is great. Well, almost everything. I almost hate to show this photo because it’s just so. Wrong. The shape, the color, the weird leathery/shiny piece at the bottom. It doesn’t even seem to fit. Like it’s big in some places where it’s highly unflattering.

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Her stylist could’ve done better. MUCH better!

Here, however, Melissa looks great. While I still think she’s a bit covered up (plus-size ladies shouldn’t be so afraid of showing a little leg, or arm, or something!), the shape is becoming and I like the draping at the neckline.

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See that side gather on the right? That is especially flattering for larger women.

Finally, the girl from Glee that I love, Amber Riley. I know this word is overused, but it fits here — this girl is fierce. And I love her style choices … for the most part. This dress, for example, wouldn’t be bad at all except for that dang bow. If that bow was on the back? Not so bad. But I just don’t get this bow here. It’s like her stylist was trying to camouflage something.

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Don’t cover up one of your best assets, girl!

This is so much better! A big flower? Sure, when it’s on the shoulder of a one-shoulder, form fitting dress with a sweetheart neckline and all your curves are like pa-pow! Amber is flawless here, and much more flattering than a huge bow covering your bust and torso.

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This shape works for her! Love the ruffles at the bottom.

Just too much going on here! It’s leather, and has sparkles, and a tulle skirt. Then there’s the bag and the boots and the glasses. Is she a hipster biker chic from the ’80s?

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As Coco Chanel said: “Once you’ve dressed, and before you leave the house, look in the mirror and take at least one thing off.”

There’s a lot going on with this outfit too, but it works. Here’s why: her makeup/hair is what’s on display here — not another accessory (the glasses). She wore simple pumps and one statement ring. So then you can take in the pattern of the dress and all its detail, and even the wild necklace, and it’s not so overwhelming. It’s a little more artistic, a little rock ‘n’ roll.

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She could’ve done this without the necklace, but I think it adds some character and edge to the rockstar look.

Have you seen any hits & misses on plus-size ladies that you want to share? Send me a Tweet!

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Starting Slow

I haven’t felt inspired to write lately, and I think part of it is due to my back injury, I haven’t been able to workout much. It seems hard to write about your weight-loss efforts when you can’t exercise. It’s even hard to write about fashion when you feel kinda dumpy.

I think the fog is lifting, though. I haven’t taken any medication for my back in two days, so that’s a start. I’m still avoiding lifting anything too heavy or really strenuous workouts as I continue to heal. I don’t want to re-injure myself as I sort of did earlier last week when I decided I could lift a box of books. Dumbass.

But I did go for a walk this morning! It felt great. I love when it’s cool on a morning that is destined to get hot, the sun is coming up and the birds are chirping. A simple 25 minutes, pumping my arms, focusing on my steps … it’s therapeutic.

While I’m excited to slowly start exercising again, I’m a little disappointed that I may have gone backward a bit on my running progress. I posted this on Twitter last week:

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I’m bummed that a race I was trying to run, the whole way with no walking breaks, is now a race that I’ll mostly walk. But I need to not get too down about that and remember that I’m grateful my back is healing and that I’m able to exercise at all. I think I’ll look down the road to later this summer and choose another 5K that I can train for to get my running spirit back up. It will happen! Even if it can’t happen next weekend.

Did you ease into working out after an injury? How did you keep your spirits up when you felt you had to start all over?

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Breaking My Back

You can take that almost literally, as well as figuratively.

I didn’t break my back, but I really, really injured it. Saturday my fiancé and I moved into our new house! We are first-time homebuyers, so the process was, shall we saw, daunting, but it’s now complete and we have a brand-new home that we picked out and watched grow from the ground up. So exciting!

Thinking that I am Wonder Woman (’cause aren’t we all?), I decided we could lift our new washing machine and move it all of 4 feet into the pantry/laundry room. Alas, I used my back and not my legs, pulled a muscle, wound up fainting from the pain Sunday morning and acquiring a plethora of drugs to cure me. Needless to say, it’s been a rough few days and I certainly haven’t unpacked even half of what I would’ve liked to by now.

One of my biggest concerns, besides my back healing and in a timely manner, of course, is my inability to exercise. I just feel … bleh. I haven’t stepped on the scale because the way I feel, I’m sure I’ve gained weight, and I’m just so mad that I can’t handle it. But until I actually get on the scale, I won’t know. Right now, I guess I have to focus on eating well and not beat myself up because an injury is an injury, and I can’t even fathom going to spinning or for a run right now. I will heal in time, and I will be back exercising regularly in time, too.

As for breaking my back figuratively, that is how I feel about the next month! There’s a lot going on. Between helping to plan an event with the United Way Young Leaders Society (Mark your calendars: July 31 at Avondale Brewery! More details to come!), being busy at work, spending time with my Little Sister, unpacking and organizing a new house, and getting ready for a visit to NJ/MA the second weekend of June … I feel like I’ll be running around like a madwoman!

In the next few weeks I need to remember my priorities. I need to make time to heal, first, work hard at any pending work and writing assignments and enjoy friends and family. The rest will all fall into place.

How do you juggle all of your commitments? Do you struggle with saying “no”?

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The Stupidity Of Abercrombie & Fitch

Yesterday, I posted on Facebook a link to an article about the CEO of Abercrombie & Fitch, Mike Jeffries. Apparently he doesn’t like “fat chicks” and he doesn’t want them wearing A&F’s clothes.

“In every school there are the cool and popular kids, and then there are the not-so-cool kids,” he told [Salon]. “Candidly, we go after the cool kids. We go after the attractive all-American kid with a great attitude and a lot of friends. A lot of people don’t belong [in our clothes], and they can’t belong. Are we exclusionary? Absolutely.”

Here’s the thing, I don’t believe that all stores can be all things to all people. I don’t really have a problem with stores offering clothes only up to a size 16 or 18. There are plus-size stores that make great clothing for us larger ladies (and big & tall spots for men). I will say that I think it’s a poor business decision, because you’re excluding a segment of the population who’d be willing to spend their dollars on your product. But A&F’s women’s sizes stop at a size 10. A 10. Really? So every woman over a size 10 isn’t “cool” enough to shop there? They’re too fat? And Jeffries claims it’s OK to offer men’s sizes up to XXL because they want to attract “large athletes.” Hm. ‘Cause I’m sure every male who shops at A&F and buys an XXL is a weight-lifting, lacrosse playing chick magnet, as pictured in their oh-so-subtle ads that are, as my cousin said on Facebook, disgustingly supposed to appeal to teenagers (!).

Soft porn, anyone?

Soft porn, anyone?

What bothers me the most about Jeffries’ attitude is this “us” vs. “them” mentality. As if the people who shop at A&F are so much cooler, so much more good-looking, than those of us who can’t or don’t. I’m sure lots of clothing companies want to project this image of “you’ll be so much more popular if you wear our clothes.” I can actually get that as a marketing technique, in some respects. But for the CEO to actually preach that as the motto of their company, to implement it in such a way that they only seek out good-looking employees, and they’re proud of it, is so demeaning, so … snobby.

As a plus-size woman, I actually hate going to the mall, at times, because there are so few stores for me to shop at. Walking into a store where they only carry up to a certain size can be embarrassing, when shopping with friends. Especially as a teenager. A friend on Facebook said she was always thankful that The Gap carried up to a size 16 or so because she could shop there like anyone else. I always feel the same way when, say, I go into H&M or even the Forever 21 stores that carry plus sizes in-store. Shopping, in my eyes, should be about community, about having fun, not about making some people feel that they’re not good enough, that they’re not “cool.”

The issue at hand is, it’s this guy’s definition of “cool.”

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Abercrombie & Fitch CEO Mike Jeffries
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Who’s he to say what’s cool? Am I not cool because I can’t wear his company’s clothes? Which, by the way, often look like shrunken ripoffs of Tommy Hilfiger’s clothes, anyway.

Well, if that means I’m not cool, then that’s fine by me. I’d rather give my dollars to a company who has a wider sense of who they want to appeal to, and who they accept.

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What I’m Eating

There’s a lot of talk about clean eating. And I get it. Preparing your own food, staying away from sugar … I know those things are the ultimate level of healthful eating. The problem is, I live in the real world. Now, I’m not saying that people who are able to eat clean don’t live in the real world, I just know who I am and what I like.

I’m still dealing with the (sometimes) overwhelming urge to subsist on pizza and ice cream. Food addiction or whatever you want to call it, it’s real for me. Making better choices when it comes to food is still a daily process, a challenge at every meal. So choosing to eat a portion-controlled ice cream treat is OK for me, while I know some people would say, “Oh, but it’s processed.” I know. I get it. It’s not THE best choice in the world. But coming from where I’m coming from? It’s a better choice. And I’m getting there.

Keep that in mind as you look at some of the foods I eat on a daily basis. These are the best choices for me. They keep me feeling satisfied, they keep me within my points range and they’re helping me drop pounds. I’m not saying there’s not room for improvment! If you have suggestiosn for me, I’m all ears! But let’s be mindful not to judge or preach on one another’s food choices.

That being said, here are some breakfast and snack choices I’ve been enjoying lately (I eat lunch out way too often, so I’m working on food choices for lunch. I generally stay within 10 points when it comes to making dinners, and they vary, from meat, potatoes and veggies to tacos to simple turkey sandwiches.):

Breakfast:

Turkey sausage, egg white on English muffin = 7 points. Weight Watchers makes these, too, for 6 points.

Jimmy Dean turkey sausage, egg white and cheese on an English muffin = 7 points. Weight Watchers makes these, too, for 6 points.

Midmorning snack:

This Greek yogurt from Yoplait is 2 points!

This Greek yogurt from Yoplait is 2 points!

I put a 1/4 cup of this granola in my yogurt and it totals 4 points.

I put a 1/4 cup of this granola in my yogurt and together they total 4 points.

Afternoon snack:

I love these oatmeal packets! They're 4 points and I can easily make them in a paper cup with the hot water from the coffee machine at work. Sometimes I eat these for breakfast/midmorning snack instead, but they make a good afternoon, pre-workout snack, too.

I love these oatmeal packets! They’re 4 points and I can easily make them in a paper cup with the hot water from the coffee machine at work. Sometimes I eat these for breakfast/midmorning snack instead, but they make a good afternoon, pre-workout snack, too.

Alternative afternoon snack:

These Skinny Cow chocolate clusters really hit the spot when I need something sweet, and something chocolate!

These Skinny Cow chocolate clusters really hit the spot when I need something sweet, and something chocolate! One bag is 4 points.

After dinner snack:

These Skinny Cow ice cream treats are AH-MAH-ZING! It's like an ice cream candy bar and they're just 4 points! It's a great treat when I'm craving ice cream but can't control myself with an entire container.

These Skinny Cow ice cream treats are AH-MAH-ZING! It’s like an ice cream candy bar and they’re just 4 points! It’s a great treat when I’m craving ice cream but can’t control myself with an entire container of Moose Tracks!

I should probably state that no one asked me to write this post. All these products are things I actually eat, pretty much every day. I find having things like these around to grab when I need something quick is a lifesaver. Of course I supplement them with fruits and veggies and protein, etc.

What easy-to-grab products do you like? What foods do you cook that are simple and easy? Do you do a lot of meal preparation for the week ahead on your weekends?

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Wardrobe Wednesdays: Business Casual

I have a friend who is starting a new job this week (Congrats, girl!) and we were recently discussing her new office’s dress code: business casual. She had asked me, “What, exactly, is business casual?” A very good question. I think some people tend to take the “casual” part of this phrase way too seriously. I, myself, have been guilty from time to time of dressing down too much at work. I’m not sure who said it, but the famous quote “It’s better to be overdressed than underdressed” is definitely true, in my opinion.

My office is very casual and while I believe we are technically supposed to wear jeans only on Fridays, everyone breaks that rule. But I think there are a few rules, and guidelines, that everyone should follow when dressing for work.

No. 1: If you’re going to wear jeans, wear a darker wash — no rips! — and dress them up with a nicer top and shoes. If your office allows you to wear their branded shirts, as mine does, try to wear decent shoes and style your hair so you at least look more dressed up than you would on a weekend.

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Torn jeans, see-through T-shirt, messy hair? Not so great for work. posh24.com

A nice blouse, cardigan and statement necklace — great with jeans at work!

A nice blouse, cardigan and statement necklace — great with jeans at work! chictopia.com

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Peplum top, heels and a jacket? Can’t get more chic with jeans. girlwithcurves.com

No. 2: Watch the length of your skirts!

This? Is not appropriate. Too short. Too tight.

This? Is not appropriate. Too short. Too tight. life2pointoh.com

This pencil skirt, while still body conscious, is a great length and fit.

This pencil skirt, while still body conscious, is a great length and fit. outfitposts.com

No. 3: Remember that leggings are meant to be worn under a dress as tights or under a tunic — NOT AS PANTS!

If you're wearing leggings make sure that they're thick enough not to see through, and over your ass at work! Please!

If you’re wearing leggings make sure that they’re thick enough not to see through, and cover your ass at work! Please! iamwhatiwore.com

Leggings under a dress: perfectly acceptable.

Leggings under a dress: perfectly acceptable. ecosalon.com

With a tunic, or long sweater, and boots, leggings work!

With a tunic, or long sweater, and boots, leggings work! Fashion For Giants

No. 4: Keep a blazer that you can wear casually if a full-on suit is too much for your office. The ponte blazers in stores nowadays are perfect for business casual!

There's nothing wrong with a buttoned-up suit like this, but in a business casual office, it may be too much. It's a good idea to have a conservative suit, though, for interviews and more important business meetings or conferences.

There’s nothing wrong with a buttoned-up suit like this, but in a business casual office, it may be too much. It’s a good idea to have a conservative suit, though, for interviews and more important business meetings or conferences. celebritysuits.com

This is how you're likely to see a blazer worn at my office, and it's great for business casual. It says polished, without being stuffy. You can add personality to this office with color, jewelry and shoes.

This is how you’re likely to see a blazer worn at my office, and it’s great for business casual. It says polished, without being stuffy. You can add personality to this outfit with color, jewelry and shoes. Banana Republic

What inappropriate outfits do you see at your office? Does your office have a dress code?

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Mish-Mosh: Priorities, Weigh-in, Vlogging

Morning! So today I’m bringing you all the thoughts. Yes, all the thoughts in my head.

No. 1. — Vlogging. I learned a few things from watching my first video blog yesterday, and I thought I’d share them with you:

  1. Relax, take a deep breath. I, apparently, get a much stronger Southern accent when I’m nervous. Being from Jersey, I still claim to not have a Southern accent after living in Alabama for about six years. However, I can certainly see where some of my Northern friends are coming from, when they mimic my “y’all,” now that I’ve watched my vlog! I think it was a case of the nerves.
  2. Get better lighting
  3. Remove cellphones from room. No need for everyone to hear my text messages on the video.
  4. Make sure your space is adequate. For some reason, I chose to show you how to do exercises in a bedroom crowded with moving boxes, hence me slamming my hand/dumbell into my dresser.

So, hopefully my next vlog will be better!

No. 2 — It’s April 30, so I wanted to weigh-in today since I’d like to weigh-in again at the end of May, to check in on my progress. I’m happy to say, I’ve lost a few pounds!
Last weigh-in at Weight Watchers: 258.2
Today’s weight: 254.2
Change: -4

I feel like I’m off to a good start!

No. 3 — Balancing my priorities. It’s tough sometimes to do all the things I want to do. I have this fear of missing out. But I’ve learned that it’s OK sometimes to say no, and it’s OK to say, “Hey, this thing this week is going to take priority over pretty much everything else. It’s just the way it is.”

This week, that for me, is moving. I’m moving into a new house with my fiancé on Friday — I’m so excited! We’ve been taking a lot of our stuff over on our own, so the movers will only have the furniture to deal with (hopefully that will save us some money!). While I’m sad that I missed a media mixer last night, and I didn’t get a workout in, I know my priority right now is getting things packed up. I am, however, making time for spinning class tonight and I’ll still do my arm workout every day. Thankfully, between packing and unpacking boxes, and trips up and down stairs, I’m still remaining pretty active this week! Next week, I’ll go back to my regular priority for after work: gettin’ my sweat on!

How do you balance your priorities? Do you ever feel guilty saying: This week, that’s going to have to be on the back burner?

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